Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Cynthia Heredia
English 1B
Knapp
March 07, 2011
Feminist Critisim 
         “Taught from infancy that beauty is woman's sceptre, the mind shapes itself to the body, and roaming round its gilt cage, only seeks to adorn its prison.” Mary Wollstonecraft was a famous writer who was passionate about her rights around the late 1700’s. Along with many more women, the fight for having the same benefits continues now in some countries. Focusing in to the 1960’s was almost the start of officially making a movement that didn’t start till the 1970’s eighties-ish. Dagoberto Gilbbs wrote his novel The Flowers which is set in Los Angeles during the feminist movement in an area where there is a lot of Mexican cultures and customs. There are three main women characters in the novel The Flowers, Silvia Sonny’s mom, Cindy who lives in the Flowers apartments building and also Nica. All of these women play a role of stereo and control of a man.
Silvia is described as a “pretty little Mexican gal” (51). Sylvia was everyone’s and no one’s man type of woman who spent her time with many men during the night and stole their money. There is one stereotype of a Mexican woman who steals and gets with any guy. Where we find out the she steals is when a man came knocking on the door while she wasn’t home and violently threatens to hurt her if she didn’t open and poor Sonny has no idea who that man was. The stranger literally shouts, “You bitch, open the fucking door right now, you goddamn thief, you slut, you bitch, open this door, Silvia, right now, or I’ll fucking bust it in” (6). The key words from this passage are thief, slut, and bitch which are the main words that directly degrade a woman.
After the act of violence, that she doesn’t know happened, she decides to settle with a man named Cloyd Longpre who has a lot of money, owns his own apartment building The Flowers, and is racist against blacks and stereotypical about Mexican woman. One of the biggest misconceptions of Mexican women is that they love cooking and cleaning, which being a Mexican American woman is not exactly the case. Silvia decides after being an out and going mother to be an at home mom who cooks and cleans for her husband. Sonny realizes that the image of an at home mom that Silvia tries to portrays is only a fake version of herself. Sonny says, “My mom was dressed too pretty to take serious, shampoo in her hair and body lotion smell, and she was trying too hard to sound happy. Nobody’d believe her except her” (17).  Even reading a little more after that passage Sonny explains how typical house mom’s dress and the differences it has towards Silvia who tries to impress her husband. He also explains how Silvia doesn’t usually cook or even knows how to do many kinds of dishes.
Later on in the novel Silvia gets tired of being at home and wants to get out for once. Women are not meant to just be at home and be assigned chores and cooking. So Silvia decides to go out and when Cloyd arrives home he doesn’t find her there and bursts into anger. He says, “Goddamn it… Where is she?” (127). He is drunk and wants her home at that instant. Sonny explains how his mom snuck in by the back door and that’s where she always enters through anyways which shows the lack of respect of a married woman to go through her own families front door. It also shows how her freedom is banned and is gotten in trouble for stepping out for a little while. Silvia is a great example of a woman with no powers and is controlled by a male or has been controls by men.
Cindy is another character filled with stereotypes. She is literally a desperate housewife. She is very bored and hates her husband. Cindy tries her hardest to seduce Sonny and plays the main ‘bad girl’ of the novel. While Nica is the ‘good girl’ who works hard to take care of her brother and is in charge of house hold chores. There is a big difference in Sonny’s level of respect for each character. Sonny is attracted to Cindy in a sexual way and is seen as just a mere object or a second base if all fails with other girls. There is a very intense scene where they almost have sexual intercourse and his reaction was, “As bad as I felt, meaning good, what she said made me feel other bad. I wanted to yell at her saying it, and I wanted to do it again now… I wanted to steal something of hers” (87). Sonny uses his attraction to take opportunities to get what he want which is stealing and having her for his pleasure.
On the other hand, Sonny has a different want from Nica. His want is also getting in her pants but Nica’s personality and intensions is way more different than Cindy’s.  Nica’s parents didn’t allow her to go to school or anywhere for that matter. She is like a princess locked up in her home for life to take care of her baby brother and doing chores. She did appreciate what she had and the way she dressed says a lot about her just as Cindy’s way of dressing says a lot about her as well. Sonny describes, “It made me happy she thought my name was good, and I probably would’ve smiles right at her, but I wasn’t able to look up, so I smiles at her dress. It looked soft like cotton, the color of beach shells, and it was wrinkled like the crinkly paper they draped from ceilings … Nobody wore a dress like that. It made her seem like a movie Indian” (47). The way she dressed and her personality made Sonny look at her in a distinct way. While Sonny describes Cindy, on the sexual scene, “She got up, putting her little pieces of bikini back together” (87).  On most of the scenes Cindy is half naked while Nica is always dolled up. Even though Sonny at a point gets an impulse to steal from Nica he holds back from that because he knows that being like that to her wasn’t what he wanted to appear to her. But Sonny does try to imagine touching and kissing Nica despite the differences and how he sort of manipulates her to break a couple of rules by sneaking over to her apartment at night.
These three main women of the novel show the degrading way men treat them. Silvia, the house wife who tries to be someone she isn’t. Cindy, the desperate house wife how tries to get into Sonny’s pants and is the ‘bad’ girl, and Nica who is trapped in her own home and is the ‘good’ girl that may break a couple rules.

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Feminist perspective

The book The flowers Silvia the mom of Sony is stereotyped and controlled and overpowered by men in general. In the beginning of the book there was a violent seen where a man tore down the door looking for Silvia because apparently she stole money. Here the author shows that she was with men for their money and would use them to steal from them. Which causes her into trouble but also her son. Another scene is when she actually gets married, wait don’t forget she is a Latina, to Cloyd who is a white man who owns apartment buildings and they move in with him. Sony asks his mom what had happen to Goofy the dog and Cloyd gave her a “pissed off” look and she apologized to Sony for not bringing Goofy. This shows how the author but Cloyd as the dominant man in the story for giving her the look and her trying not to look at him to not make him upset. Also her attempts to make a good house wife like cooking and cleaning for him and at first she wanted to but now she is bored and she is trapped at home. When she actually decided to have a night out Cloyd get super angry with her for leaving and probably jealousy is raging through him since she is very pretty according to some characters from the book. I kind of lost my train of thought once it comes back I’ll continue this post…. Comment please :)

Metacongnitive free write

My only reading skills is rereading and rereading passages I don’t understand and looking up words I don’t know. Other than that I didn’t really go in depth with books. Now my reading skills have improved quite a bit but it is all with practice. I lately have been pausing between a couple pages and reflecting on what is going on. What has happened? What will happen? And I ask myself all kinds of question so I could just understand and not get lost. My worst reading habit I used to have was if I didn’t understand I just hoped that if I kept reading id figure out where I was and still continue on. That is the worst mistakes I did because I would finish the book and not remember anything I read. Practicing and getting into a habit is hard but not impossible and hopefully throughout this class I pick up better habits. Another habit I have picked up is trying to figure out themes and how they have changed while getting to know the characters in the book The Flowers. I remember trying to begin this book and I got lost on the first five pages. I hope people know what I’m talking about and am not the only one who experienced this in the beginning. The good thing is getting into the habit of rereading helped. Comment if there is any errors I would appreciate it J

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Character Description

Silvia is the mother of Sony. According to Sony she is a mother that doesn’t really take into consideration that she has a responsibility to take care of and only act like she does. “My mom has to be there with me too. She has to take off from work and listen and act like she was all worked up about me too, which she wasn’t, and I knew it, because I heard her taking all the time on the phone about what she was up with , but the lady judge wasn’t going to notice nothing.”(page 4). This was when a cop pulled him over and asked him what he was doing. Then the cop farted and Sonny laughed. Which got him into trouble and ended up at court. Sonny knew his mother didn’t care even if she acted like she did at court. She was also a mother that isn’t really there with her children and doesn’t have a stable relationship with a man. “She was tired, and she didn’t like to waste time because she was already way too busy. It was my mom, if she wasn’t at her job , was out on dates and whatever” (page 5). Sonny knows she works hard to keep them with a roof over their head and food but that there isn’t a good connection with them since she doesn’t really know them.

Sunday, February 6, 2011

My mother never...

My mother never gave up on striving me and my sister to do our best. She is a woman that I look up to the most. Her name is Victoria and born in Mexico. Since she remembers her mom, my grandma, suffered abuse from her dad, my grandfather. My mom ran away when she was fourteen and came to the United States to have a better start in life. On  the age of fourteen she tried finding any kind of job except nothing that dealt with disgracing her self. She always reminds my sister and I how working with respect and honor will lead to a happier and better life. At the age of eighteen she met my father and got married a year later and also had me. This February her and my father are having their eighteenth anniversary. Also this year I’m graduating and she has been a great support in my life and always says she wished she had the chance to go to school but her parents didn’t want her to. Which was another reason she sort of left. Now she has a loving husband and two daughters that are trying to make her proud, and her own beauty salon business here in Gilroy. She is the most amazing woman I have ever met.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

I am...

I am a person who looks for quotes about what is going on in my life. I am the oldest child in a family of four. I am easy to get along with. I enjoy reading romantic/ adventure novels.I have read a book recently in the winter breaks called Dear John and I enjoy book versions than movie versions of books. I am a gullible person sometimes.I believe in morals and consequences ,good or bad, in every action.I can be very talkative or very quit. I am a person who loves music any kind form Mexican to Korien pop to County music. I have a passion of taking care of my family and close friends. My middle name is named after my grandma (dad side of the family). I have a total of fifteen aunts and uncles and too many cousins that I haven't met yet. I have two main shows I watch, Pretty Little Liars and Trufo del Amor. I am Hispanic even though come confuse me to be in the Asian ethnicity. I am passionate about being in school and staying in school. I can consider myself sort of feminist. My goals is graduating and going into a UC or CSU by fall and earning a major in Business Administration and minoring in communications, but the main school I am looking forward to an acceptance is San Diego State or UC. I thinks thats the basics about me. Comment if any questions or correcting my if I made mistakes I need more practice in my writing. :)